Beautiful sister’s let’s love ourselves without the need for the love of others inshallah. We love our creator first Alhamdulillah.
When proposals fall on your lap you become happy. However if the brother changes his mind negative thoughts run through your mind thinking there’s something wrong with you.
You question your self-worth instead of knowing that any brother that didn’t want to get to know you is missing out on a wonderful strong sister Alhamdulillah.
You question your self-worth instead of knowing it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. He knew that you were too good for him.
You question your self-worth and begin to conform to try to “get” his attention. By lowering your boundaries and ignoring the red flags.
What this all comes down to is not owning your self-worth and loving yourself first and foremost inshallah.
The Brothers you attract won’t change until you do inshallah.
Until you finally put yourself first and begin to work on your own self-love and believe in yourself as you are truly worthy.
A healthy brother is instinctually attracted a sister that loves herself.
That’s filled up by her own life and goals inshallah.
That doesn’t stop at the drop of a hat to change plans around to meet with them.
That doesn’t look for them to make them happy.
That is so happy in her own life he knows it’s a gift to be a part of it.
Notice I said healthy brother.
If you aren’t loving yourself first and owning your own worth, then you’ll fall victim to the first brother that pays attention to you.
You’ll fall for all the wrong brother’s and get attached each and every time.
You’ll fall victim to a brother that is filling in the missing pieces within yourself that’ll only leave you unhappy again in a year from now.
You’ll understand exactly why you have attracted what you’ve attracted and begin to attract differently inshallah.
Finding true love always starts and ends with you!
With you loving yourself and your life so much so that you’re not worried about someone coming in to make you happy inshallah.
Allah loves you and wants you to love yourself without the need for the love of others inshallah.