This is something I’m working on. I’m a planner. I like routine and structure. After freeing myself my 22 year marriage, I was terrified how I would cope as my three children could be difficult.
It’s been nearly 2 years since I gained my freedom and I feel like a weight has been lifted. My children were difficult at times they still can be challenging at times. I can cope Alhamdulillah.
I don’t have to have every day of my life planned perfectly. I just need to keep moving forward, to turn my dreams into goals inshallah.
I need to give up some control for example always having my home like a show home and enjoy life beautiful sister’s inshallah.